Many of us, me included, have grown up with the Hollywood version of romance and "happily ever after". We have been told and shown that if you find the "right one" eventually everything falls into place and the rest of your lives' together are blissful, happy, and secure. Turns out a lot of that is absolute bunk. Relationships take work, and the more important the relationship to us, the more work it require to maintain, particularly the relationship with our romantic partner